Venting

So Micah is closing in on three now and still isn't potty trained. I wanted to have him trained before Brooklyn was born, but I was way to sick to do it. I spent most of the pregnancy on my back sick as a dog. I tried, but I ended up just laying on the floor of the bathroom. Anyways, I was told to let him go naked because it is the fastest way. Well, I decided that I would do that today. I just put a shirt on him and told him to go play. Lucky me, I have a modest kid who freaked out and threw a fit wanting his pants on. I told him we didn't need pants and we went in the backyard with snacks and juice. I brought the potty close to the back door so he could get to it quickly. He sat on in for a minute and then ran back to his room to throw another fit and cried for pants. Finally I said he could wear pants and put in the Once Upon a Potty video. After it was over I told him we were going to the potty. He refused. I told him if I got to three and he wasn't on the potty I would take his pants away (that sounds so weird). I got to three and took his pants away and he freaked out again. I left him in his room and came back a few minutes later. I told him he could wear big boy pants (real underwear instead of Pull-ups) but that he can't go potty in them. I left to tend to Brooklyn who has a cold and won't let me put her down without screaming. A few minutes later Micah runs in saying he is wet. Yes, he had peed on the floor in his room. I got a rag and told him he had to help clean it up. He helped and of course off come the wet underwear and here comes another freak out session for pants. Ahhh!!! I finally had had enough. I put a Pull-up on him and I am officially saying screw it. I called Chad and told him he is now in charge of potty training. I can't do it with a nursing infant and a stubborn toddler. I think the thing that makes it so frustrating for me is knowing how smart he is. I know he knows better and he just doesn't want to do it. To top it off, Brooklyn won't give me more than five minutes alone! I am just about to lose it! If anyone has an advice I am willing to take it. If there was such a thing as a potty training boot camp, I would totally sign him up!